By Teboho Moloi
WELKOM- The Free State Social Development MEC Mathabo Hlalele has urged men to be wary of their behaviour and actions when around their children especially boys as it have a lasting influence on them.
Hlalele was speaking at the department boys to men dialogue at Kingdom ministries church Daagbreek Welkom on Tuesday 07 July aimed to intensify efforts to promote positive masculinity and strengthen family values through dialogue under the theme, “Lighting the Path: A Rite of Passage for Boys into Respectful Manhood.”
Hlalele emphasised that while schools contribute significantly to children’s development, the responsibility of teaching values begins at home and such engagements of bringing together boys, fathers, mentors, community leaders, and various stakeholders to discuss the critical role men play in shaping the next generation is important.
“Our boys learn from what they see long before they listen to what we say. If we want to raise responsible men, then today’s fathers and male role models must preserve their own dignity, lead with respect, and demonstrate the values they expect young boys to follow.
Parents must take responsibility for teaching moral values before children enter the classroom, “said Hlalele.
She further highlighted that fatherhood responsibility role extends beyond personal relationships.
“A relationship may end, but fatherhood never ends. Every child deserves the love, guidance, and presence of their father. Building meaningful relationships with your children today helps prevent the emotional wounds that often affect future generations,” she said.
She said such dialogue are part of the department commitment to strengthening families and building safer communities by investing in boys today, with the goal of nurturing a generation of respectful, responsible, and compassionate men who will positively shape the future of the province.
Among topics highlighted included the importance of addressing men’s mental and emotional health, encouraging those struggling with unresolved trauma to seek professional support.
